Creativity: The Great Equalizer

Engaging your creativity after 60 is a sure-fire way to combat stressors that accompany aging.

Currently navigating through a host of family and financial issues, my good friend and 70-plus hero, Paula, employs creativity as a tool to rebalance perspective.

Her creative weapon of choice? Painting.

Each time Paula adds a brush stroke of color onto a canvas, she immerses herself in a world of her own invention. Although some might argue this is nothing more than escapism, many would agree it’s the polar opposite – being in the moment. 


Like any serious hobby or craft, painting takes discipline.

Paula’s strenuous dedication to the process puts her mind, body and soul in front of a canvas every day. In addition to a set of worn brushes and a host of oil paint colors, her tool kit includes a combination of intuition and a discerning pair of eyes.

Although the realization of a perfect painting remains aspirational, she insists that “fulfillment comes from sticking with it, doing the actual work, no matter how difficult, no matter how frustrating.”

Solace can be found in steady improvement and incremental success, a metaphor that bleeds over into other areas of her life.


A year ago, Paula moved out of the family house she shared with her husband of over forty years into a small place of her own. The move toward independence began as a life-saving event. After a rocky start and some difficult soul-searching, it’s been transformed into a life-affirming journey.

“It’s all about recalibration,” she says. “In both life and art, less is more. It’s all about reaching the right amount of less with my art and with my life.”

Part of the mathematics of success at a stage in your life when fewer paths present themselves, is to open up tributaries to let in the light. Paula surrounds herself with a group of like-minded friends and acquaintances who support her creative endeavors. Actual creativity might emanate from within one’s self, but it is often triggered by something said or done by those you trust, those who would see you succeed.


A year into her self-reinvention, life remains challenging, but things are going well.

Paula plans to veer away from representational painting and challenge herself with the abstract. She has more appreciation now for the distinction between light and shadow and what lies in-between. More comfort with areas of grey. She can now stand back from a canvas and view her painting as an impression that tells just enough of the story.

With this guidance, borrowed from her creative endeavors, it isn’t surprising that her view of life is more sanguine, allowing her to think past the barriers and make new connections, both neural and worldly.


How exactly does Paula plan to dig deeper and push creativity to new heights?

As a volunteer for Catholic Charities, in the coming months she will  lead a pilgrimage through the picturesque Camino de Santiago, which cuts across northwestern Spain and is reputed to hold the remains of  Apostle, St. James. The route is often followed by those seeking a spiritual path.

Paula’s fluency in Spanish and adoration of Spain’s multicultural history made her a logical choice for the role. As a bonus, she will use the time before, after and in-between hours of work to explore her new medium of choice, watercolor.

Watercolor, a faster, more intimidating medium, takes even greater planning and discipline. This makes Paula a bit nervous, but what better place to have faith than on a Pilgrimage?


Not sure how to flip on the switch of your creativity? Read my article on this site, entitled: Your Creative Past: A Roadmap To The Future.

In the meantime, in the comment section below, share how you use creativity to express yourself, ward off personal demons or simply enjoy the moment!


This article was first written for, a quality site dealing with global, contemporary issues for women over 60.

For additional posts on creativity, view these posts:

Your Creative Past: A Roadmap To The Future and Video Chat: Time To Reconnect With Your Inner Child.


3 thoughts on “Creativity: The Great Equalizer

  1. Lovely, lovely piece. Your writing is so elegant and expressive, hitting just the right notes. I loved the sentence about the fewer paths at this time of life, but the opening up of tributaries to let in the light. I love the ending about “what better place to have faith than on a pilgrimage?” And it’s spot on throughout. Paula was a great choice because her journey is a great metaphor for your message. You’ve hit the right audience with this group, but your words have a wide application. I look forward to whatever you tackle next.

  2. Thanks, Ann. This is one of my favorite pieces so far. I wanted it to be as elegant as its subject. It’s my first profile piece so it was also a good learning. I think you’ll find the next article interesting. It asks the question: Can You Rewrite Your Life? It’s about memoir writing.

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